Hello e_boulanger, I checked the Dell site HERE , and it shows the XPS630i to support only 667 mhz and 800 mhz.
This may explain why you seem to be having this issue.
The original Nanya memory is 800 mhz, and it is a known brand and I have used it in the past without any issues.
Since I am not familuar with the XPS630i, I cannot offer any real use information, however I have an XPS 420 that supports only 667 mhz and 800 mhz memory.
My system has the same Q6600 CPU as your system was shipped with, at the 1066 mhz speed, and the BIOS uses the CPU/DRAM ratio to run the CPU at 1066 mhz and the memory at 800 mhz.
I suspect that when you have the faster Q9300 CPU running at 1366, the BIOS is trying to run the Corsair 1066 memory at 800 mhz, and this may be where the issue arises, but with the Q6600, it runs at the CPU/DRAM ratio of 800 mhz.
As I mentioned, since I don't have any real time experience with the XPS 630i, I cannot be certain of this, but it would seem logical.
Just to mention, I have had Corsair configure memory for some systems of mine in the past, and the memory Corsair suggested would not run in my systems.
But to be fair, when I contacted them about these issues, they were more than willing to correct these errors very quickly.
Hope this helps.